I wanted to share authentically with you today for #supersoulsunday
Iâm often told by people âyouâre so strongâ , âyouâve been through so much, and have come through the other side betterâ, âI wish I had your strengthâ, âyou look great for your age” (and thank you, I think I do too – for any age – not just my age đ).
Iâm grateful that people can see that in me and that side of me. Iâve worked hard to get to the point that what you guys see is the end result of my digging deep. Things always look âawesomeâ on social media – “oh look at her, sheâs having the best life”, or “she’s always out with friends or doing stuff and going cool places”.
And, that all may be true – but what most people do not know are my insecurities, regrets and the choices I am intentionally making each and every day to make ME a better version of myself and create a life I want, not the one I inherited.
We all tell ourselves stories everyday, stories like  —  “Iâm this way because ….  I had a tough childhood, my ex was an addict, I was cheated on …. “and the list goes on. But those are just the stories that we live in because theyâre comfortable but theyâre not the truth per se. Yes, those things DID happen, but they arenât happening now! They happenED.
The truth is feelings and stories arenât a good barometer of whatâs currently going on. The question is âWho am I being about it? â We tend to get stuck and guide their lives and decisions based on our FEELINGS and our PAST.
Weâre currently living life with our view of life determined by our past. If youâre letting your feelings dictate your life, try coming at it from a different view. Â Itâs your view of life that gives you whatâs possible, so get out there and live your best life!
You deserve it!
My Better Life 