We always seek evidence on knowing something the way we want it to be rather than the way it is.
We see things as we want them to be, which is a reflection
of who we are
Our version of the truth or a situation/scenario is typically based on our personal perspective, our view of life based on our past – on what we know – then we go out and find and collect evidence to support our view, our opinion, our notion. Not typically considering how something actually is.
There’s always three sides to a story/a view:
Your side/opinion
The other person’s side/opinion
The truth
In matters of interpreting things, we are subconsciously trying to rationalize things rather than being rational. This is on account of our inherent bias towards what the outcome should be or our belief system or an inability to reason things properly.
Consider how you can alter your mindset. How you can change the way you see and show up on the world?
Namaste
T xo
PS: In a tiny bit of irony; the book I’m currently reading (Critical Vulnerability), it talks about precisely this
Photo taken from my Kobo – from the book Critical Vulnerability
Hello and welcome to my blog!
I never really thought about starting a blog much before recently, I mean … what did I have to say or offer that would have anything of value? I’m not an expert in decorating; I just have an eye for it. I’m not “The Nanny”, but I am the mom of two lovely, beautiful, driven young women. I can speak to topics such as coming up through the lower ranks of the social financial system, being a teen mom, being an empty nester at 42, highlight some trials, tribulations and exaltations and about how I created a life for myself that I am happy with beyond measure. It wasn’t much before a friend of mine said “you should write a book” that I gave some serious consideration to blogging.
My goal, really, is to provide and share some of my experiences, create dialogue and maybe help a few people out along the way.
I welcome your comments, questions and ideas about what you’d like to chat about.
Namaste,
T xo
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